Remember, your dating life, just like your career, is an investment that will pay off in the end with enough patience and diligence.
As a side note, it is worth paying for a good subscription on eharmony to have the highest level of functionality.
BBWCupid has the usual awesome, clean interface with all the functionality you will find in my most favorite sister site, Brazil (for people living in Brazil).
With that said, I would use this site as a third option if your two options above don’t give you the results you were looking for.Plentyoffish.com: Plenty of Fish (POF) is completely free to use and sign up. I also found that the overall quality of the members on POF was lower than the pay sites I mentioned above.