If you’re feeling ashamed to be seen with a ladyboy or worried about what other people might think, then maybe you’re not ready for your first ladyboy date.
You’ve got to leave all that baggage behind you if you’re going to go on a date with a ladyboy, especially in Thailand.
If you just want to get laid stick to the bars, or seek out the ladyboys online looking for the same thing. Trying to bed a ladyboy who you know is looking for a relationship is going to be a lot of time and trouble and you’ll either end up looking like an asshole and upsetting them…or you may even get into a bit of trouble (no one wants to play the game Angry Ladyboys).
While it pays to be honest about your intentions, just as with any first date, it doesn’t pay to be too honest about everything.
If there’s one stereotype that’s true about ladyboys it’s that they love to dress up and look good.
If you do end up in a relationship with a ladyboy you’re going to curse the amount of hours she spends doing her hair and make-up or shopping for shoes and clothes…but when it comes to date time they’ll be turning all the heads in a positive way.
A date with a ladyboy is no exception, and talking about sex and ex-partners is never the way to get off to a winning start.
If you’re going to take a Thai ladyboy out on a date, treat it like you would any date and make an effort.
By all means flirt and be sensual, but don’t be too forward or come off as a sex offender – as said earlier, if it’s sex you’re looking for it would have be easier to be honest from the start.
It’s not like everyone is going to stare at you and call you a freak, if anything the people starring will be wondering how the hell a guy like you landed such a hot date.
If you go into it with any sense of shame or social shyness you’re only going to make your date feel totally embarrassed and uncomfortable, which isn’t cool. Don’t walk 5 steps in front of her or take her somewhere quiet and away from others.
There are plenty of ladyboys out there on dating sites looking for sex and friends with benefits, but there are also a lot of genuine ladyboys looking for boyfriends and serious relationship.
If you make out you are looking for a real date knowing full well you just want to get laid, in the end you’re just wasting everyone’s time.
The ladyboy population are an extremely diverse group of people and to make assumptions about how a ladyboy has grown up, what her ambitions are, what she does for a living, or what she wants simply based on the fact she is a ladyboy – is a pretty dumb move.