That was until I heard about dating sites specifically designed for married people. I felt I owed it to myself to check out this crazy idea.Besides, I was desperate to smile, feel good again and fulfill my urges.I have been dating while married for the past 14 years.

I have spent countless of hours browsing various dating sites for married people – I have been scammed, tricked and fully letdown…there are so many sites out there supposedly catering for the married but dating crowd, but how do I know that they are legitimate?

I felt the site’s vetting system was a bit flawed – too many women who didn’t have the most important aspect in common with me: married but looking.

Some sites even had fake profiles simply there to entice users to sign up. Other sites that looked promising charged an arm and a leg to join their community, but once in, there were no safeguards to one’s privacy.

The women I started chatting with were genuine; we could relate to each other’s experience of trying to re-discover that lost spark outside the confines of our respective marriages.

And because of that and a host of other reasons, these women are mature and sophisticated enough to understand the concept of discreetness.I certainly couldn’t turn to friends for introductions for obvious reasons.