If my comment was mysteriously deemed offensive when it seems pretty harmless to me, clearly I'm missing I would love to meet more people like this and date them.
I just don't know if it's realistically something I should hold out for, or whether I can be happy with someone without the crazy sexual chemistry.
I had hoped attraction would grow but it didn't.
It just made everything really awkward from going on dates to having sex.
I have heard of women who became attracted physically after they started dating, but I think it's rare for that to happen and I wouldn't bet my heart on it again. Yes, it's totally possible to be attracted to someone's mind/personality so strongly that you can have a good relationship with them. There's nothing like pausing with your spoonful of Cheerios halfway to your mouth because you've just realized for the nth time that the person sitting across from you is a ridiculously attractive personality and a very attractive body, and I can't date him for reasons that are too specific to describe here.OVERVIEW The IRONMAN World Championship Physically Challenged Open/Exhibition Division is available to athletes with a medically verified physical, visual, or neurological impairment that substantially limits one or more major life activities.Athletes with miscellaneous conditions such as, but not limited to, intolerance to temperature extremes, organ transplants, joint replacements (endoprosthetics), kidney dialysis, hearing impairments, and or cognitive impairment are not eligible for the PC Open/Exhibition Division.But if you feel negative or neutral about more than one or two things, it might be best to end things early and save yourself the problem of really caring for someone, but wondering if there's something better out there.
Not to butt in too much, but my two cents are that it sounds like you aren't feeling great about your relationship.
It doesn't help that the advice out there is so conflicting -- "don't be unrealistic, the perfect man doesn't exist" vs. I've dated people that I was compatible with, whose company I enjoyed, but the all-encompassing "omg love" feeling has only happened in junction with serious physical attraction.