Sometimes you need a fresh start, maybe just a break, but remember our options need to be given to God in prayer before we make a final decision.
If my friend decided to leave our church, I wanted to make sure she felt it was God’s will for her life.
Although it was a mutual parting, it was still a difficult choice for her to walk away. I’ve seen so many people leave their home church after a breakup.
We all have friends that aren’t saved that give sound advice.
However, be sure to find someone that can also offer a biblical perspective on the situation as well.
After a breakup, someone once told me I should lose a ton of weight and get a new wardrobe so he would regret breaking up with me. Also, competing with your ex’s new “friend” will only make you look silly. There’s no reason to make it known that you feel you have more to offer. Don’t try to manipulate circumstances to meet your expectations.
This person should be a mature friend, who isn’t dramatic and has a proven track record of being level-headed. If they offer feedback about your behavior, let it sink in for a moment, consider it, and put effort into making necessary changes.All Mate1 profiles registered in the EU prior to May 25th, 2018 will be removed from the service and your data will either be removed completely or pseudonymized in our databases.