Bookmark this page now so you can come back to it again and again. From my experience teaching hundreds of shy people over the past couple of years, both guys and girls, I’ve found the cause of most shyness is a feeling of inferiority. Meanwhile around a girl you find attractive your mind suddenly goes blank and you can’t think of what to say. The solution is, of course, to stop placing so much value on looks.
If you feel you are somehow “less valuable” than the girl, then you will feel shy and nervous around her. Treat an attractive girl in the same casual, natural way you would treat a guy friend or unattractive girl.
On the other hand, many of the good looking guys who are shy are stuck alone or with a girl they’re not really attracted to. So the most important thing is to cut out any thoughts that sabotage your confidence or make you inhibited.
Eventually I realized most of the people typing this stuff up had never been shy around girls themselves, they had just thrown up a webpage to make some quick money.Most guys feel a little nervous around the girls they like, but they’re able to take a deep breath, push through it, and become comfortable with them over time. This post is for the guys who feel really anxious, scared and inhibited around girls.