My physical deal breaker is that any man I'm interested in dating and having a relationship with has to be H/W proportionate.
Weight IS something that can be controlled during the course of a person's life (well, most peoples' lives).
Societal standards of beauty are not only arbitrary but often literally impossible to achieve without Photoshop and make-up and there are assholes out there who feel empowered to mock fat people with impunity.
But being large and in charge doesn’t mean that you’re doomed to a life of being forever alone; in fact, you may find that you have far more options for finding love, sex and happiness than you’d ever believe possible. There are plenty of notable examples out there if you look around. Seth Rogan is no Abercrombie and Fitch model but he’s also happily married.
He has a nice full time job, and I think would make a fantastic boyfriend! I don't know how to put it any other way but to be blunt.
I am a skinnier person (always have been) and I daily use bra fillers (also known as chicken cutlets).
After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads. So what if some guys on here wouldn't date women with flat chests? There are lots of guys out there that LIKE smaller chests - or who care much more about butts or legs or feet or something else.
We have a lot in common, and I can see myself being his girlfriend long term. There is a major problem, and I'm seriously hoping you can give me a little advice.
Now we could dwell on the fact that these various winners are not gym-sculpted Adonnises themselves, but instead I want to focus on the positive and work on people’s lives instead of trying to stroke the hate-boner.
Besides, the best revenge is living well and there’s nothing quite like seeing the underdog succeed despite all of his or her disadvantages. The cognitive dissonance Now, I’m going to be blunt: dating can suck when you’re fat.
Genital size and girth is irrelevant and not a deal breaker for me although it probably is for some women. I would be more attracted to a woman with double-As than a woman with gravity-defying implants any day. But, for a man to immediately turn a woman away because of her breast size seems pretty shallow in my opinion.
And besides, if a woman's chest is flat when she's young, they are less likely to get saggy when they get older. I will say that I think flatness on a petite woman looks more attractive to me than flatness on a full-figured woman. A woman has NO control over how much fatty tissue develops in her breasts from the time she is born - in much the same way a man has no control over how large and thick his sexual organ becomes from the time he is born.
*sigh* I would be an idiot to let someone like him go. Why are you imposing your own limitations and insecurities on him? Don't destroy what you're building just because YOU have a problem with your body.