The right person will come at the right time and for the right reasons. I have “rescued” a friend from a bad date, recently, and while wearing my “Spiritual Gangster” tank top. I personally have zero problem calling it when I see it (politely of course), but it’s taken me some solid practice to learn the art of the graceful exit.Being overly responsive or attentive is a bad plan; the idea of “the chase” isn’t meant to be you cyberstalking and checking in every hour. Some things to remember: 1) take a cab if you can, use a ride sharing app if you really want to do it right, so you can “call” them slyly from under the table and then suddenly “voila! A bad date helps us to enjoy a good one, a good relationship gets us ready for a great one, a painful or arduous experience tests our composure, flexibility and resilience.
Desperation proves to be a total turn off for guys, so try to adjust your perception as well as your attitude.Although you must have thought of how your dream man or soulmate would be, it is advisable not to have a preconceived image of your 'prince charming' who resembles a favorite celebrity. If you are hoping to get the man of your dreams and feel that your age is working against you, make sure that you at least try to look presentable and feminine.