They are warm and caring and practical in equal measure.
There is no perfect type and in the same way there are no perfect matches.
Serious minded and caring, values are so important to the INFJ.
Integrity is their watchword and they will be excellent listeners, supportive and with a strong desire to ‘do the right thing’ often the catalyst for making things better.
In a crisis, the ESFP will be there, taking charge, offering support, revelling in their ability to help, loving the drama with their energies and infectious enthusiasm. Understanding the differences between two types is a really great starting point for getting along.
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So much has been written about whether opposites attract or difference is the key but in real life it is all about understanding the differences, accommodating and managing them.
All interactions, given the nature of the INFJ as champion and supporter, will eventually deplete their energies and they will need to recharge on their own, thinking deeply about issues and connecting the dots.
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Some people seek harmony, some see conflict as simply robust discussions, some people are emotional, some more factual.
The ESFP may creative but it will be in a practical, people-centric way, rather than as a reflector and the ones who comes up with novel ideas, although they will be such great supporters of those types.
Meaning, harmony and personal values are at the heart of the INFP.ESFPs are life loving, fun loving people-centric thrill seekers, with a real caring side and a desire to offer practical, emotional help.