Yes, I know, you can never really be a virgin AGAIN. Feel free to chime in yourself and leave a comment over at
In the past, when a good-looking man reached out and touched me, I was a goner. No, I’m not going to go out and buy myself a purity ring.
I ask my clients “What do you like most about dating?
” The question is usually met with a stunned silence, followed by a comment like this: “You mean that there is something positive about dating?
Say hello, make eye contact and smile at everyone who crosses your path. Try this 2-step exercise which helps mimic a pheromone aura. Visualize that you are with someone who you really care for. He’ll be flattered, perhaps intrigued enough to want to get to know you better. Being too open about yourself, hovering, or being anxious to please causes you to appear insecure.
Asking him about his job or which part of town he lives in can be interpreted as checking on his financial status.
Many women feel as confused dating at 50 as they did at seventeen. If you understand how to compensate, your dating life will flourish.
Adolescent courtship is about chemistry and passion.
They are reluctant to pursue a woman who seems uninterested, because fear of rejection looms larger than anticipation of connection. The first step is to signal that you are single and available. The beauty of being midlife is that you can explore your dating options without having your hormones rule your responses. When you find someone you want to know better, it’s time to signal interest Women have told me that they don’t want to act interested in a man because they’re afraid of looking desperate. When you are signaling interest, you are friendly, smiling, and relaxed.
I assume she’s worried he’s cheating on her – and that’s why she wants to look through his phone.
A big part of me thinks that if you think your partner is cheating, then he probably is. Is it time to start shopping for cars and furniture together, or is it time to take your relationship one date at a time? This means TALKING to your boyfriend about how you feel when he turns away.
One thing I know for sure, though, is that when you are hungry, it is an act of wisdom each time you turn down a spoonful if you know that the food is poisoned.”This post is part of a roundtable series on virginity as started by Honey and Lance.
): “A good, decent, loving man will come along and when it happens I will be ready, but right now I just need to be and really immerse myself fully into being a mom and taking care of my inner spiritual self.” For me, this isn’t about listening to God. It’s about one of my favorite quotes from author Anne Lamott who wrote in “Sometimes I’m so hungry for a partner, a lover.Here’s an article I wrote for a reader whose boyfriend has extreme emotional swings: How to Cope With a Moody and Unpredictable Boyfriend.