But by all accounts I'm a Twinkie, and I'm not sure OKCupid really lets you filter with that level of granularity anyway.Past that, I think this fear is an inescapable cost of not being the default, and it rings especially true in a city that's relatively diverse but incredibly segregated. I (Asian guy) went from California to Wisconsin and had a similar culture shock when I discovered that a lot of midwestern girls, even if they liked me, would not ever date me.No matter what you’re doing or where you are, if a Midwestern girl is nearby it’s bound to be a fun time.
I had a perfectly fine time dating on the East Coast. But it's so hard to get traction in the Midwest.
Her adventurous and spontaneous spirit makes her down to do almost anything.