Not to mention exposing them to somebody you don’t know well yet.
I agree with that to a certain extent but my concern goes deeper than that.
It spoke a lot of truth and gave some good information. Harvey he believes you shouldn’t wait a long time to have this meeting take place.
Now there are several key topics that he speaks on that I want to discuss further. He feels it will give you a better idea of the kind of person you are dating.
If you are “truly” in the right relationship, your kids will naturally be happy with the person you are with because they genuinely make you happy.
When the child does not like someone you can honestly say is the best person for you, it probably is because a) they are not over the fact that you are not with their biological parent and therefore nobody will be accepted until that issue is resolved.
The point I am trying to make with all of that is, if you find the best relationship that truly makes you happy and fulfilled, then everything else will fall into place.
On the flip side interjecting your kids to early can make things messy.
They are using the kids for their goal to get you, and you will be so caught up in the fact that your kids “like them” that it will become harder to walk away when you recognize they are not the right person for you.I can give many examples, and they will all show how this introducing the kids too soon can get risky.