Japanese girls are usually on the passive side BUT change after marriage (like anyone else...). I don't care about the ethnicity/looks/etc., but I cannot stand dating American women anymore because of their attitude. twist to Japanese women is if they speak a foreign language and lived overseas.They gain this great mixture of cultures and what not and it makes life a bit easier cause the culture gap is narrowed down.Japanese men seem to expect certain things from a woman.Things that they fear a foreign woman would not agree to do (e.g.They’re not afraid of showing their feelings in public or telling their girls flat out how they feel about them. The extreme version of this is known as “gaijin hunter” and some will do everything for the sake of having one of those adorable “half”-kids (half Western, half Japanese) just to toss their foreign guy later on.For foreign women it’s a completely different story.
), and the public perception of “charai foreigners” is definitely at its pinnacle. And even if the plan is long term, circumstances (lost job, visa expiring, deportation) make it impossible to afford a girl the same level of “security” that a Japanese citizen can. Even if Japanese girls may have a reason to not like you, taking note of the book, and the suggestions above, will ensure you can mitigate the risk.
The biggest downfall is that they pick and choose what culture "rules" to abide by in their advantage.