She wants to move back to her home town and in with husband before hitting the crappy job market for a better job. Don't allow her to be isolated from family and friends.Keep your strong ties with her and be supportive even though you don't support her choice to get married.This is a losing battle so don't even bother fighting it.
There was no way I could be convinced they knew what they were talking about. " Basically, you have to let her do this and then support the marriage if it works out, or help dust her off if it doesn't.
But that is what letting go is all about letting her fall so she can pick her self up.