You dating commitment phobe

One of the worst feelings in the world is when you take a flight and right when the plane hits the runway, you immediately turn your phone back on and…nothing. I landed, turned my phone on and had 19 texts and 2 voicemails all from the same person – my best girlfriend who I’ve known for 20 years.

Last week, the complete opposite happened to me when I flew back into Los Angeles after a quick business trip.

What makes this so hard for you is that the “unfollow” not only activates the old feelings and wounds from the relationsh*t you shared, it also activates those triggers that we Well yeah, sure. He came to visit me over summer and gave me a promise ring too so we were serious fast.

If he had proven through his actions that he wasn’t an emotionally unavailable jerk and had treated you well in the relationship, yeah! Him acting like he’s being “respectful,” is an attempt to convince himself and others that he has changed, is capable of respect and isn’t the guy that you know he is. We are also super religious so I thought this was it.

I do ask why and he just responds coldly and said he thought about it and doesn’t want me in his life basically.

I feel like I did something wrong but I know I didn’t.

I got engaged 8 months ago, my fiancée asked me to marry him after 6 months of being together.


I guess I’m kind of confused since now he is telling people stupid lame excuses to why he broke up with me too and it hurts Hi Reza, Thanks for reading 🙂 I’m so sorry that you are going through this. Keep coming back here, reading the posts and keep the focus on you.Although this is very hard for me, I want to understand why he hasn’t unfollowed me? I’m sorry that I missed your comment and am just getting to it. He probably hasn’t unfollowed you because he wants to keep tabs on your life and also because he may want to come across to others as “the mature one.” You just continue to do what’s best for you, take care of you and have your own back xxxx I love this! We “broke up” back in May because he “didn’t know what he wanted”.since then have been in 24/7 contact and have spent a few weekends together.


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